Must do things with your partner before getting married!
Travel together
You might have gone on weekend trips together but going on a longer vacation will help you understand your companion better. It is a great way to test your compatibility with him, and know each other better. In fact, you will get a better idea of how your partner reacts when he steps out of his comfort zone, and how you take decisions together in a completely new environment.
Share responsibilities
We are sure you do not want to marry an irresponsible guy, right? Whether it’s growing a kitchen garden, taking care of a pet or an ailing family member, try sharing a few responsibilities together before tying the knot. You would understand how he handles the situation when it comes to sharing responsibilities.
Live together
It may not be possible in every case (that’s why we have suggested to travel together), but living together before getting married can be an eye-opener. You will get to understand him better, and see how you support each other in rough situations. If everything goes well, it’s the time to decide the day and venue of your D-day!
Discover a hobby together
Instead of going on lunch or movie dates, spend time in a hobby class together. Yes, you read it right. Pick a hobby or activity that you both have not tried before and you might end up exploring a completely new side of your future spouse. You will see how he interacts with others and responds to a new situation. If he bears a I-know-it-all attitude or is reluctant to accepting changes, you might have to deal with a stubborn spouse after marriage.
Play the name game
It’s easy to assume someone is going to take the traditional route, but these days, we’re seeing so many different paths taken, it’s best to visit the topic early,” Whether you decide to take your spouse’s last name, keep your own, combine the two, create a new last name, or choose something else entirely, consider the implications for both of your families and any future children that might come from your marriage.